Rating:4/5
Review:
Witty, penetrating and grotesque
Mother For Dinner is an excoriating satire on the contemporary
obsession with identity. It has a good deal of Shalom Auslander’s
customary brilliance and wit, but has its flaws, too.
As in the brilliant
Hope: A Tragedy, Auslander uses an outrageous premise to illustrate
what he sees as the dangers of relying for one’s identity on a
sense of both current and historic oppression and injustice. Here,
he creates a Cannibal-American community living covertly in the USA
having come from the Old Country (no-one remembers precisely where)
several generations ago. A myth about their establishment in the USA
is created, embellished and nurtured – by no-one more so than Mudd,
monstrous matriarch of a Can-Am family and a parody of every
over-zealous orthodoxy, who “loved her people, so much so that, as
a matter of pride, she despised all others.” Seventh is one of her
sons who has broken free but is drawn back as the family gathers for
Mudd’s death – after which, by tradition, they are expected to
eat her.
It’s a clever,
grotesque device which enables Auslander to throw Orthodoxy dependent
on ancient stories and tradition (of all kinds) into sharp and
unforgiving focus. This passage is a good example: “...nobody
remembers exactly what Remembrance Day was established to remember.
Something happened— of that there can be no question— and
whatever it was, it was bad. It was tragic. It was the most tragic
thing that ever happened, otherwise why would they remember it, even
if they didn’t? All that is known for certain is that somewhere (no
one can remember where), on some particular day (no one can remember
which), something terrible happened to their blessed ancestors (no
one can remember what), and it is important that they never forget
it, whatever it was and whenever it happened, and that they curse the
names of those who perpetrated whatever it was that was perpetrated,
whoever they were, and whatever they did.”
He also takes
well-aimed swipes at some publishing trends exploiting ideas of
identity and other targets. The message, that identity is important
but becomes damaging if it is insular and wholly inward- and
backward-looking, is very important and he can be very, very funny
about it. However, toward the end the grotesquerie got just a bit
much for me and rather obscured what Auslander was trying to say.
Mother For Dinner is
often brilliant and hilarious and makes good, important points. You
do need to be prepared for some pretty gross scenes, but I’d say
it’s well worth it. Perhaps not the absolute gem that Hope: A
Tragedy is, but still very recommendable.